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Lover, Stalker, Killer employs an intriguing blend of documentary and dramatic techniques to unpack this complex true crime story. Director Sam Hobkinson intersperses interviews with law enforcement and key case players with meticulously staged reenactments. While some true crime docs rely solely on archival media, Hobkinson realizes that much of the Kroupa/Farver/Golyar case unfolded away from public scrutiny. Compelling drama fills these visual gaps.

Yet the most fascinating visual choice involves Dave Kroupa starring as himself in these dramatizations. We witness Kroupa’s escalating paranoia through his eyes, lending an unnerving you-are-there immediacy. His nuanced performance in reliving such trauma proves more potent than any professional actor could manage. Meanwhile, the restrained staging resists exaggerated Hollywood flourishes, keeping the focus on the astonishing facts at hand.

Hobkinson’s disciplined direction mirrors the dogged police work that eventually cracked the case. The engaging visual approach neither undermines the truth nor distracts from its stranger-than-fiction twists and turns. In clever service of the story, form follows function.

An Online Date Gone Horrifyingly Awry

When Nebraska mechanic Dave Kroupa joined the dating site Plenty of Fish following his divorce, he merely sought casual connections with no strings attached. Enter Liz Golyar and Cari Farver – two single moms apparently embracing the same carefree dynamic. But when Kroupa casually dates both women simultaneously, jealousy and obsession erupt from the shadows, sending his life into a nightmarish spiral of stalking, harassment and far worse.

We first meet the easygoing Kroupa in 2012, as he settles into new bachelor digs in Omaha close to his kids. Free from commitment, his fling with Golyar proves fun if surface-level. Yet when Farver’s Ford Explorer leads her to Kroupa’s auto shop, deeper sparks fly. Their effortless rapport blossoms into romantic rendezvous, with Kroupa again stressing his non-exclusive dating stance. No red flags yet.

Cracks in this delicate balance emerge when Golyar and Farver cross paths during an unexpected apartment visit. The fleeting interaction triggers Farver’s provocative request to move in together, along with a barrage of unhinged texts and threats when rejected. “You’ve ruined my life,” reads one. “I’m going to destroy all the things you care about,” promises another.

Kroupa suddenly finds himself stalked by an unseen predator. Vulgar messages and photos escalate at dizzying speed from ever-changing numbers, attacking him, Golyar and his family. Golyar’s pets are killed in an arson attack, while she and Kroupa endure further property damage, gun violence and psychological torture.

Yet as the mysterious harassment stretches on, one realization shakes the case to its core: no one has actually seen Cari Farver in ages. While Omaha police still eye the troubled Farver as the culprit, doubts simmer beneath the surface. A deadly hunch takes hold – could Farver in fact be another casualty in this partner-fueled web of vengeance? The shocking truth awaits.

The Sinister Stalker Unmasked

As Kroupa endures years of harassment, Omaha detectives remain convinced the threats originate from troubled Cari Farver herself. With the victim oddly absent and her bipolar disorder fueling dark fixations, she makes for an obvious culprit unable to restrain her vicious compulsions. Still, nagging gaps linger in the theory…gaps an Iowa investigative team will eventually explode wide open.

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Enter the Pottawattamie County squad – technicians, officers and deputies joining forces to pursue overlooked leads across state lines. They dust off once-dismissed evidence through freshly objective eyes, tracing the dizzying web of texts and emails back to their concealed source. Metropolitan police may have lacked the tools, manpower or impartial distance needed to pinpoint the menacing manipulator at the heart of this shadowy plot.

In shining their light on digital fingerprints previously overlooked, the county experts uncover the chilling truth – the relentless threats and trauma inflicted upon Kroupa all along originated from none other than Liz Golyar herself. Possessively enraged by Kroupa and Farver’s tryst, Golyar engineered countless fake numbers and accounts to wage psychological warfare from the shadows, while posing publicly as just another rattled target.

Yet most earth-shattering of all, improved forensics reveal these unhinged messages in fact continued barrageing Kroupa long after he had believed Cari Farver deceased. For all the earlier signs pointing her direction, officials confirm Farver perished within weeks of meeting Kroupa – an innocent casualty of Golyar’s sadistically calculated scheme executed over years. By the documentary’s conclusion, justice is finally served to the actual dead-eyed monster behind the lover stalker killer monicker. But not without scars inflicted on countless additional victims along the way.

Hybrid Storytelling with Authentic Edge

In portraying this stranger-than-fiction saga, director Sam Hobkinson blends conventional documentary techniques with dramatized reenactments to ratchet up engagement. Yet his most compelling decision involves casting key figure Dave Kroupa as himself alongside professional actors. We relive Kroupa’s escalating everyday paranoia through his own haunted eyes, lending an unsettling credibility no skilled performer could replicate.

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Hobkinson supplements Kroupa’s central role with in-depth interviews from the law enforcement trifecta who helped crack the stalking conspiracy for good: Pottawattamie County’s Tony Kava, Jim Doty and Ryan Avis. Their candid backstories and unaffected banter humanize the officers behind the relentless investigation without sensationalism. We experience their shock and dogged determination in equal measure.

Disciplined reenactments fill visual gaps along the way minus Hollywood sheen, keeping the disturbing facts front and center through a crisp, observational lens. Shadowy interactions unfold with hypnotic magnetism rather than explosions of showy style. Likewise, Hobkinson employs swift-moving montages and text effects to echo the barrage of messages weaponized against Kroupa by his tormentor.

In avoiding common true-crime pitfalls of salaciousness or distraction, Hobkinson honors this elaborate real-world tragedy with straightforward reverence. Pieces snap tightly into place thanks to Kroupa’s raw involvement, police context and simmering dramatic sequences that embed us subtly into the stalker’s spider web. A restrained yet gripping hybrid approach lets the nightmarish content speak loudest through the fog.

A Familiar Darkness in the Digital Age

While audiences have long been drawn to love triangles gone awry and stalkers unhinged, Lover, Stalker, Killer chillingly reframes these troubling archetypes for a modern online age. As dating apps and anonymous communication breed new opportunities for deception, this saga of cyber harassment feels both uncomfortably familiar and cutting-edge.

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Certainly, crazed loner tropes driving the likes of Fatal Attraction and Swimfan seem almost quaint compared to the meticulous digital plotting enacted through dozens of fabricated personas here. Where deranged antagonists once required proximity and recognizable motives, we now enter an era where violent compulsions sparked by even cursory intimate connections can metastasize unseen through the tentacles of technology.

Yet the most insightful revelation within this true story is that unsettling randomness still reigns supreme when it comes to the psychology of obsession. While apps expanded the playing field for calculated predators like Liz Golyar, no virtual communication can ever fully inoculate us from the offline world’s capacity for senseless cruelty when fragile minds unleash it.

Just as eyewitnesses and forensics once solved similar mysteries, it is fittingly digital footprints that provide answers now when human evidence falls short. For all the familiar true crime boxes checked here, Lover, Stalker, Killer ultimately presents a crossover tale blending old-school compulsions with solutions only modern technology permits. The human-digital intersection breeds fresh darkness.

Harrowing Viewing for True Crime Devotees

Lover, Stalker, Killer lures viewers into an elaborate real-world web of deception, cruelty and tragedy thanks to Hobkinson’s gripping chronicle. What separates this twisted love triangle documentary is both profoundly unsettling subject matter and a hybrid visual approach bringing refreshing immediacy through participant-starring reenactments. Kroupa powerfully relives his escalating nightmare to chilling effect.

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Meanwhile, the Pottawattamie County dream team piecing things together fosters satisfying solidarity. We experience their professional frustration, personal struggles and ultimate vindication in cracking the haunting case through refreshingly human eyes. Their triumph over stone-cold predation becomes our own.

Make no mistake – given the documented fate of poor Cari Farver, this descent into madness fueled by relationship mind games makes for thoroughly grim viewing. Less graphic entries in the “love gone lethal” true crime subgenre may provide lighter viewing options. But for those seeking an emotional rollercoaster plunging to greater psychological depths, one cannot deny Lover, Stalker, Killer’s hideous potency. This skillfully rendered glimpse behind the digital curtain reveals that even casual intimacy can spawn unimaginable darkness in unstable minds. Consider yourself warned.

The Review

Lover, Stalker, Killer

8 Score

With its stranger-than-fiction story and unflinching look at cyber-enabled cruelty, Lover, Stalker, Killer makes for a haunting true crime chronicle. Hobkinson deftly blends honesty and humanity into the filming approach, while the uncovered details disturb and transfix with equal potency. For those with interests aligned to such morbidly fascinating sagas, this documentary provides a gripping descent into relationship stalking and violence and its lasting scars. A stark warning of poisonous obsessions in the digital shadows.

PROS

  • Incredible true story with exceedingly bizarre twists and turns
  • Dave Kroupa's haunting reenactment performance
  • Methodical, gripping investigation process depicted
  • Straightforward yet engaging storytelling approach
  • Meticulous digital stalking details unveiled

CONS

  • Disturbing subject matter could prove too morbid for some
  • Melodramatic musical cues undermine the fascinating content
  • Lingering unanswered questions about motive and psychology

Review Breakdown

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Tags: Cari FarverChristopher MaherDave KroupaFeaturedJessica N JohnsonKatie OttenLiz GolyarLover Stalker KillerSam Hobkinson
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