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The Golden Bachelorette Review: A Refreshing Spin on a Tired Genre

A compassionate exploration of love, loss, and the audacity to hope again, but one constrained by the glossy conventions of reality TV

Shahrbanoo Golmohamadi by Shahrbanoo Golmohamadi
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With an elegance that feels almost old-fashioned in a medium that lives on spectacle, Joan Vassos entered the world of reality television. At 61, she has the quiet gravity of someone who has lived a full and complicated life. She is nothing like the upbeat, glossy characters we’ve come to expect from The Bachelor franchise.

The first part of her story doesn’t start with a fairy tale marriage, but with the kind of love that lasts: 33 years with her late husband John, who died in 2021 of pancreatic cancer. She speaks about him in a soft, steady tone, but it’s clear that she hasn’t quite accepted the weight of his absence. It’s possible that she does not want to. Joan herself says that grief isn’t a trip with definite miles and tones; rather, it’s an uneven, never-ending landscape that must be navigated.

Her first time on The Golden Bachelor last year was short but memorable. She quit in the middle of the season to take care of her daughter, who was dealing with postpartum depression. It was a selfless and subtly defiant move that showed that reality TV, despite its fake drama, sometimes crosses with real life.

Now that Joan is the first Golden Bachelorette, she plays a part that is so contradictory it feels like it came from Shakespeare: she is both a heroine and a widow, a woman looking for love while still living with the memory of what she lost. But despite her vulnerability, there’s a spark of drive in her—the kind that makes it seem like she’s not just looking for a friend but also rediscovering herself.

The Contestants: A New Generation of Suitors, or the Same Old Dance?

What does looking for love in your “golden years” mean? As I watched these contestants—men between the ages of 57 and 69, each with a lifetime’s worth of stories written on their faces—I found myself both touched and uneasy. The men are interesting examples of lives that might seem normal in another setting.

There is a retired teacher, a former builder, and a man who says he is Tina Turner’s godson, which I want to check but am afraid to do. However, in this setting, with the soft lights of reality TV, these men seem almost mythical, like romantic figures drawn in shades of gray and silver. They are endearing, flawed, and truly human.

Still, the show uses them as symbols of second chances, as if their stories of loss and resilience can be easily turned into stories of redemption. That’s either comforting or cruel, depending on your perspective.

When problems surrounding the contestants’ pasts come to light, it’s harder to accept how the show portrays its contestants as symbols of resilience. The fact that the show included contestants with protection orders, which got a lot of attention before and during the season, makes people wonder about the franchise’s care and whether it puts drama over safety. Due to this oversight, the show’s examination of second chances risks turning into a disturbing performance.

Take Pascal, who calls himself a “European sophisticate” and is always confused by the American customs around him. He’s the kind of person who might be the funny one in a rom-com, but there’s a soft side to him that makes him dislike bowling shirts and group dates. Then there’s Mark, who speaks so reverently about his late wife that it feels intrusive. Chock, who brings homemade soup to his first meeting with Joan, is cute and strange as if he had just walked in from a different show.

Their friendship is what struck me the most, though. These men are kind to one another, even protective, in contrast to the cocky strong males of the earlier Bachelor seasons. It is as if they realize, in a way that younger contestants could never, that the real battle isn’t each other but time; it’s a dynamic that feels both refreshing and deeply depressing.

Show Format: A Dance Between Nostalgia and Reinvention

The Golden Bachelorette is essentially a well-choreographed version of its predecessors. The producers are used to a lot of routine: the dramatic limo arrivals, the statements at cocktail parties with moody lighting, and the rose ceremonies full of fake tension. It’s easy to fall asleep to these expected beats that are meant to make us believe that love—messy, hard-to-explain love—can be boiled down to a structure this rigid.

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I was struck by how much the show embraces and rejects its conventions while watching Joan Vassos deal with this tried-and-true formula. There is the same story, but the words carry a different weight when the actors have lived long enough to have needed love and lost it.

The age of the contestants changes the tone in minor but significant ways. Gone are the cocky twenty-somethings with smiles that would look great on Instagram and carefully crafted sad stories. The stakes feel higher, and the heartbreaks occur more frequently here.

When a man like Mark speaks of his late wife, or Pascal talks about how hard it is for him to connect with people from other cultures, you can’t help but feel the weight of their years. These men aren’t just trying to find romance; they’re also trying to figure out what it means to start over after decades of certainty and loss.

Still, the structure sometimes falls apart under this much weight. Suppose the show doesn’t fully trust its older cast to create natural drama. In that case, the helicopter rides and forced group dates, relics of the franchise’s earlier forms, seem absurd in this context. While I sometimes question whether reality television can convey sincerity, moments like Joan’s smile or a contestant reflecting on his late wife hint at a deeper truth about resilience and hope.

Tone and Atmosphere: A Fragile Balance Between Sweetness and Sentimentality

The Golden Bachelorette has a softness that feels almost revolutionary. It takes the usual harsh edges of the franchise and softens them on purpose. Liked it or not, the tone has been called “sweet” and “refreshing,” and it’s easy to see why. The show doesn’t have its predecessors’ mean comments and tense fights.

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Instead, there are quiet moments of emotion, like when Mark talks about how hummingbirds make him think of his late wife, and Joan struggles with the guilt of moving on after her husband’s death. These situations feel real and almost invasive as if we accidentally walked into someone else’s therapy session.

Of course, some disagree. The show’s older cast, some say, takes away from the drama that makes the franchise interesting, making the show seem dull or even pathetic. It’s a complaint that feels cruel and revealing—an attack on our cultural bias against youth and spectacle rather than the show itself.

Are we so used to seeing fun as chaos that we can’t enjoy a story that is calmer and more thoughtful? Or maybe the discomfort comes from seeing older people—those we’ve pushed to the periphery of romance—placed at the center of a story that wants them to be seen not as parents or widows but as people who still want to connect with others.

The fact that the show defies easy classification fascinates me the most. It is sweet but not too sweet; even when it is funny, it has a sad side. Compared to the contestants’ real-life experiences, the franchise’s normal trappings—helicopter rides and champagne toasts—feel almost absurd.

I was torn between admiration and unease as I watched Joan perform these routines. Is this a real look at love in old age, or is it just a clean-up dream meant to make people afraid of aging feel better? I’m not sure. But I’m not sure that The Golden Bachelorette does either. That might be what makes it so interesting.

Host and Presentation: The Polished Veneer of Jesse Palmer

It’s either efficient for Jesse Palmer to be the host of The Golden Bachelorette, or it feels like he missed a chance to do something great. Critics have noted his disinterest, calling him an almost ornamental presence with a polished voice that reads the same scripted lines we’ve heard for decades in the franchise.

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He says, “This is the last rose for tonight,” in a very precise tone as if it were a holy saying. I couldn’t help but feel the disconnect while watching him lead Joan and her suitors through emotionally charged moments. His cool, businesslike attitude might work for younger contestants whose drama likes to exaggerate. Still, his lack of warmth feels off-putting to widows and grandparents here.

I can’t eliminate the feeling that this choice is skewed toward men or women. In a season about the trip of an older woman, why is the host still a man who doesn’t seem interested in making real connections? It’s hard not to think about how the dynamic might have changed if a female host was perhaps closer to Joan in age and experience.

Someone who could understand Joan’s weakness and talk about the difficulties of love, grief, and aging without using clichés. Instead, we get a host who feels like a holdover from a younger, glossier version of the show. This is because the franchise is still trying to figure out how to balance its flashy presentation with the grounded, deeply human stories it claims to tell.

Jesse Palmer’s polished, detached demeanor didn’t fit the emotional depth of the situation during a season with many contestant scandals. The show could have handled its growing pains more gracefully if it had a host who could make real connections with people or even just acknowledge the difficulties of the job. Palmer’s scripted speech only emphasizes the team’s reluctance to deal with the more severe problems that came up during the regular season.

The show also has a more general style, with soft lighting and swells of orchestral music, as if feelings that are too raw or wild must be neatly contained. Yes, it’s beautiful, but it also feels strangely distant, like a lossy screen over lives that don’t need it.

Exploring Themes: Love, Loss, and Aging

There is more to love after a loss than just moving on. It’s a quiet bargain with memory. This idea runs through The Golden Bachelorette like an undercurrent, affecting every scene. Joan is hesitantly stepping into a world of rose ceremonies and helicopter dates as a widow. Her journey is a careful balancing act.

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She frequently speaks of her late husband, John, whose ghost hangs over both her and the men who want her attention. Hummingbirds remind Mark of his late wife, a man whose grief is evident in his shaking sincerity.

His voice shakes with hope as he says, “It’s like she’s there.” When I looked at him, I felt both moved and uneasy, like grief had been turned into a plot device. Is this for fun or voyeurism? I’m not sure if I want to know.

The fact that the show included contestants with protection orders, which got a lot of attention before and during the season, makes people wonder about the franchise’s care and whether it puts drama over safety. As a result of this oversight, the show’s examination of second chances risks turning into a troubling performance.

Despite its sweetness, the show also looks at how we shape ourselves to find love. In this case, getting older is both praised and hidden. Joan is beautiful, but her highly Botoxed face—a mask of youth kept—feels like a symbol of the tension at the show’s heart. We admire her for looking for love even though she is in her sixties.

Still, the show clings to a narrow idea of beauty, making even the older contestants look aspirational. Critics have noted this dissonance, and I, too, feel it: Joan’s face, frozen in its perfection, is both a triumph and a denial of time’s passing age.

Gender plays a big role in how this old age is shown. Despite their wrinkles and soft midsections, men are permitted to wear their years as badges of honor and proof of their lives. It’s as if Joan’s weakness—her grief and wisdom—is not enough; her beauty is seen as a sign of her worth. I still want her to win, though, not despite but because of this deception. A longing to be seen as both timeless and human can also be found in the act.

The Golden Bachelorette’s Place in the TV Landscape: A Quiet Revolution

It’s hard to put The Golden Bachelorette in a neat little box within the big world of reality TV. At first glance, it seems like just another shiny part of the Bachelor franchise—a show that trades in fake romance and shiny fronts. Something quietly radical is going on beneath the familiar trappings, though: a refusal to let love, longing, and self-discovery be claimed only by the young.

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The sight of 60-somethings sharing their grief and hopes feels almost subversive in a genre characterized by tight bodies and messy knots. As I watched Mark think about his late wife or Joan admitting her guilt over moving on, I realized how rarely older people are shown on TV as complex and still changing.

However, the debates surrounding both The Golden Bachelor and The Golden Bachelorette tarnish the franchise’s ability to fully accept this radical idea. Accusations of cheating and public relations problems during Gerry Turner’s short marriage and subsequent fall from fame raise questions about the sincerity of his trip. Additionally, the fact that The Golden Bachelorette has contestants with troubling pasts shows that the series continues to rely on spectacle, even if it hurts its credibility. The show is at a crossroads due to this tension between sincerity and manufactured drama.

The Golden Bachelorette is softer and slower than its younger siblings and does away with much of the franchise’s normal artifice. This changes the genre but also shows what it can’t do. The show still clings to some biases despite its sweetness: the polished host, the Botoxed lead, and the perfect front. Still, it let a door open. These stories of love, aging, grief, and rebirth show what reality television could be like if it were open to more nuance.

This could spark a trend—maybe. People want stories that don’t end at age 40, as shown by the popularity of The Golden Bachelor and its spin-off. The real question is whether reality television, a medium based on artifice, can truly capture the messiness of later life or if it will just repackage it, softer but no less contrived. I’m not sure, but I’m hoping.

The Review

The Golden Bachelorette

6 Score

While The Golden Bachelorette is a welcome look at love and getting older, the show's sincerity is weakened by its inability to fully break away from its formulaic roots and failure to vet contestants properly. The show's groundbreaking idea is tarnished by unnecessary spectacle and controversy, even though Joan Vassos remains a fascinating figure.

PROS

  • Refreshing focus on love and relationships in later life.
  • Vulnerable and relatable moments from Joan and contestants.
  • Challenges ageist stereotypes in mainstream reality TV.
  • A kinder, more introspective tone compared to typical Bachelor franchise drama.
  • Offers emotional depth through themes of grief, resilience, and second chances.

CONS

  • Jesse Palmer’s hosting lacks warmth and relatability for the tone of the show.
  • Reluctance to fully break from the franchise’s glossy, formulaic conventions.
  • Joan’s heavily curated appearance raises questions about the portrayal of aging.
  • The format feels occasionally absurd or ill-suited for older contestants (e.g., helicopter dates).

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