The new Netflix romantic comedy “Nobody Wants This” has found mainstream success since its release last week. However, parts of the show drew criticism from some in the Jewish community who argue it relies on outdated stereotypes. Erin Foster, who created the series loosely based on her own life, addressed concerns about how the show portrays Jewish women and families.
Some questioned scenes that were said to promote negative depictions. In the first episode, the rabbi’s mother refers to his love interest Joanne using a derogatory term for a non-Jewish woman. Jewish writer Jessica Radloff took issue with this, stating it went against the welcoming message of her faith. Others also objected to portrayals of Jewish women as overly xenophobic in the show. Rabbi David Bashevkin commented that the trailer featured common stereotypes about Judaism.
However, Foster wanted the show to present Judaism in a positive way through her personal experiences converting and marrying into the religion. She highlighted how the rabbi character, played by Adam Brody, breaks expectations as a “hot, cool, young” weed-smoking religious leader. Foster believed accurately representing Judaism required casting a Jewish actor in the lead role.
While popular, this debate illustrates the challenges of translating lived religious experiences to television in ways that feel authentic without marginalization. As minority depictions remain under increased scrutiny, the discussion around this show shows ongoing efforts to seek nuanced and inclusive portrayals across entertainment.
